It’s one thing moving into the house of another – putting your stamp on a place isn’t easy. It’s quite another taking tenure of the house of your late mother or, indeed, her garden. How on earth do you go about the sensitive business of clearance and alteration while also honouring the memory? It’s a question Tom Faulkner is deeply familiar with.
Home for Tom – when he’s not in London overseeing his Pimlico Road shop – is a single-storey cottage in rural Oxfordshire built by his mother in the early noughties, a few large strides away from his sister’s farmhouse. When Tom’s mum died, the idea of a stranger taking occupancy felt odd to the family. So, his solution was a straightforward one – to buy out his siblings. The hard part came after.
“Mum was a terrific plantswoman. She had done the whole thing – not just the house, but the garden, too,” he says. “It was very much hers. I had to work out how to live in it without either destroying what she’d made or keeping a shrine to her.”











